Take off the diaper

Approximately two years of age when the child begins to have some control over half its excretory function.

There are no specific ages since learning of each child is individual, although it is known that approximately two to three years the child should control the pee and poop little later. As proposed age limit two years, age at which we should consult with your doctor if there is any physical or emotional problem.

The withdrawal phase of the diaper is for children a new challenge that must confront unarmed, no security, so it is imperative that parents may bring the situation to not cause the child fears or resistance.
First you should make sure that it is the time when your child wants to stop using the diaper, never force the situation because you decide that now is the time. Each child is in its development phase and some find it harder than others, gives your child time to reach this maturity.

At first the withdrawal the diaper is difficult

For your part you should be aware of certain signs that may give us clues as to whether the time has come. These tracks are often invisible to some and are important, such as whether the child wants to get on the toilet and sit as the elderly, also notes if you like flushing or want to get older underwear as his brother.
One important thing is to monitor the urinary response, checks for long periods in which the diaper is dry or after the night or nap time is kept dry, this indicates that the time is coming and that the child controls a little more his sphincter.
On the other hand look at what their response when the diaper is wet or dirty, look to see if it bothers you, pull it, I want to remove, this indicates that mature and already realizes he has urinated, smallest thing not being identified.
In her non-verbal communication can also find some notes if you move tracks anxious before wetting or stops and stands still just before doing so, this indicates that it is realizing that you are urinating and therefore may control if we give instructions.

When taught to use the toilet or urinal will be very helpful to use a model, for example may be the mother and brother

Is a gradual process
Like everything in the child, the final withdrawal of the diaper will need a gradual learning process with errors and successes for which we must be prepared.
Our attitude should be calm and understanding giving explanations to the child every time you get a goal or every time you make a mistake, our goal will not feel bad every time you pee and show up naturally happens to all and normal children. We will make every effort to avoid criticism, jokes for adults or other siblings since the child may feel guilty and lose self-esteem.
Although he wet his pants or the bed several times, never complain of dirty clothes or work giving because believe it is their fault and not evolve, you will feel pressured by the environment and this will be counterproductive.
When taught to use the toilet or urinal will be very helpful to use a model, for example may be the mother and one brother.
The child sees the other as they use it naturally and it will get used to it too.
We also help the dolls that pee or poop or the stories they talk about it, we can invent characters and draw them so that the child can color in situations always in the bathroom.
To get the child used the potty in the toilet first and then he will sit every day several times, but do nothing, in order to associate the object to the excretory function.

Tips When I buy underwear or potty more you will engage in the purchase, for the point which you like best and often delude with the idea of ​​being more and get it. We must not hesitate for a moment that will get it, especially if he is ahead. Messages will always support and encouragement but not excessive for generarle not a fear of failure then we disappoint us. The key is normal. Celebrate each success especially to provoke motivation, remember that rewarded behavior is repeated over time and tend to disappear or punished not improve, so that punishment is not a good weapon to get our son to control the sphincter. Note that is a growth stage and will like the other, remember when you have lots of sheets to wash and take it quiet Avoid at all costs comparison with other children their age because it will make you feel inferior if others have done it and he did not. This process avoids contact with mothers who boast of the achievements of their children and to make you feel bad to you. Explain that each takes time and that's not good or bad, if you resort to some as it is for him to get information on how you achieved the other, so that he does well to see if it works, but never compare him or minus valorarle. It uses older siblings or cousins ​​to encourage him by telling their experiences, explain to children that your child is sad because they can not control the pee and then you encourage others, be willing to help. Finally, keep in mind that this is a time of change in the child that will provoke fears and insecurities, do not mix other situations that may cause anxiety because then it will overflow. If you are going towards changes in the family leaves the control of pee later. Address changes, new schools, vacation or unbalance the child separations and more pressure will be counterproductive, expected to pass.